How to Avoid Changing Somebody

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Steps

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Let the person do whatever they want. They are your friend, not your kid. Don't boss them around and don't tell them to do things that only you're interested

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   Don't try to change their opinions on things. If they don't like a certain band you like, don't try to force it on them.
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   If they like doing something, don't discourage them doing it just because you don't like it. Don't tell them that it's uncool either.
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   If you don't like certain people, and your friend does, don't talk about that person or try to change you friend's view on them.
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   Don't change their personality. If you're cynical, and they're not, don't make fun of them for being happy or anything like that. If you're the happy one, and they're cynical, don't annoy them with your happiness or anything. And if you really don't like their cynical ways, don't hang out with them.