How to Avoid Falling for a One Night Stand

culled from:wikihow.com

The illusive one night stand. Whether preemptive or unexpected, the aftermath can often be tricky to overcome. Although for a minority it could mean the start of a new relationship, the purpose of the one nighter is usually for sexual purposes. So let's help you have a successful and healthy sexual experience by avoiding those feelings.

Steps

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   Chose someone you find attractive when approaching a potential one night stand, If someone approaches you who you do not find attractive, politely decline their advances.
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   Try to work out if they are looking for the same thing once you engage in conversation, Do not proceed if you think they are uninterested, too drunk or vulnerable, taken or looking for a relationship.
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   Make sure that you are attracted to them, but do not start thinking of them as possible boyfriend/ girlfriend material. If you find yourself really interested in this person, do not sleep with them. As you delve further into flirting and chatting, get their number and ask if they would want to meet up, just the two of you, sometime. Return to your friends after a kiss at most.
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   Discover if they might also consent to a night of sexual mischief, but only if you find the sexual chemistry great. Make sure, though, that you define it as a one time thing.
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   Do not exchange numbers or Facebook details, etc. This will allow you to avoid continued contact after the one night stand and will avoid hurt feelings on either side.