How to Be Treated With Respect by Your Boyfriend After a Huge Fight

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You've just had a huge fight and you're not even sure you want this guy in your life anymore. What to do? Number one is to ensure that he has respect for you. If not, it's time to give him the old heave-ho. Here are some suggestions.

Steps

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Wait to see what happens next. Both of you need to cool down and get back into your calm zones.

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   Approach him if it feels right. Otherwise, wait for him to approach you.
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   Ask to talk about what happened. If he doesn't want to, ask him at least where he feels that the two of you are headed. If he says he wants to forget the fight and move on, then forget the fight itself but do be careful to deal with the issues that led to the fight in a caring and open way.
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   If he says he doesn't want to stay with you anymore, then consider whether or not it's worth persuading him otherwise. Don't grovel or feel you have to beg him. You need to decide if it's worth discussing ways to stay together or whether you're better off calling an end to the relationship. Base this on length of time together, how serious the fight was, and how you really feel within yourself about the prospects of the relationship.
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   If he stays aggressive and angry with you, consider taking a friend along when you try to talk to him. Or just call him on the phone.
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   Talk about your feelings with a trusted friend. Your perspective might need to be helped by someone neutral.