How to Know when Someone Is Not Ready to Have Sex

culled from:wikihow.com

Steps

1

Ask your partner. This is the simplest way to find out if they want to go "all the way". Ideally do this before you get into the bedroom!

1. 
   2
   Read your partners body language. If they are not joining in with the activity, giving reciprocal touch, moving away from you, or trying to leave, They aren't ready.
2. 
   3
   Listen to their tone of voice. For example, if they say, "I've never done this before," in a worried voice, they are probably afraid and not ready. But, if they are saying it in a curious, coercing voice, then they are interested in going all the way.
3. 
   4
   Check that you and your partner have not been using any substances that may impair your judgement - alcohol and drugs can make it harder to say yes or no to something.
4. 
   5
   Think about the power dynamic in the relationship or situation. Is there any risk that the person you want to have sex with might feel pressured e.g. because you are older than them or have more social status.