How to Say No to Teenage Sex

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Make sure you are ready to talk with your partner about your beliefs on sex. The sooner you have the conversation, the more likely your partner will be to understand your position.

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   When you and your partner are alone, don't touch your partner in intimate places if you have not discussed and set boundaries.
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   If your partner says or does something that makes you uncomfortable, either physically or emotionally, tell him or her that it's making you uncomfortable and that you would feel better if he or she would stop. Try to say it in a positive tone to avoid an necessary confrontation.
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   If your partner persists in doing uncomfortable things, tell him or her more firmly: "Stop; I do not feel comfortable doing this."
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   If your partner keeps pressuring you then you may consider breaking up with them. Everyone deserves respect and love, and if a person is not willing to give you respect, then your relationship is not meant to be. Tell the person that you do not want to be with him or her anymore, because he or she is not respecting your wish to remain abstinence.
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   One rule of thumb: when you are not ready to talk about sex with your partner, you are not ready to have it. Try talking with your partner about sex and avoid people who just say that pressure you one way or the other.
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   Love and sex can be two different things. Try and be sure you are both on the same page before your first time, since it can be heart-breaking for either party if one thinks there is love and the other does not.