For the majority of people fitting in and being accepted are very
important, to the point of obsession, especially true in the K-12
grades. In real life though, being an interesting person will go the
farthest not only in making you attractive, but also in making you
personally happy. Nothing is as attractive as smarts and creativity, and
one day you might earn your living that way, too. If you find yourself
getting bored with the same old same old try these tips for growing into
a more developed human being.
Steps
1
Understand that you are changing your personality, not your look.
Let go of labeling, if you can. It does not matter how you dress or
label yourself, what matters is that you want to do this for you, and
what you do. That's what matters.
2
Examine your motivation. These kinds of changes are not done to become more popular. They are done to enrich your being.
3
Wear whatever you like.
Creative people tend to dress to suit their own personality or what
they are currently interested in. They are often style leaders which
means they wear things they like, things that appeal to their creative,
edgy side, things that may flummox, scare or confuse many people.
4
Listen to whatever music you want, or, to put another way, listen to music that makes you feel creative and edgy.
5
Engage in creative pursuits: write songs, poems or stories; sketch pictures; play an instrument or learn how to sing. The sky is the limit.
6
Be yourself, whether you're sarcastic or unbelievably serious or like sulking in dark corners.
Being and cultivating yourself is what this is all about. Doing
creative things does not mean you have to stop doing other things you
like. If you're edgy and you happen to like cheerleading, go ahead and
do it.
7
Do not be afraid to be the
girl who actually has a bunch of fun sometimes - it's perfectly okay to
dance as much as you want at a party, have as much fun as you'd like. Creative, edgy people are often the most open-minded, fun loving people.
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