How to Romantically Hug a Guy

Guys aren't always open with their feelings, but there are times when he needs to know he's loved. Maybe he's having an off day, or maybe you just want another way to say, "I love you!" The hug is one of the best ways to let him know you care!

Steps

 

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A hug to say, "Hello." If you are dating already it is really easy to give him a hug. Simply walk up to him, look him in the eyes and smile at him. When you finally get to him, reach your arms around his neck and give him a squeeze. This will tell him, first that you care and second that you've missed him a little since you've last seen him. (It is recommended that you reach your arms around his upper body. Slip your arms under his and hug him around rib-level. Many guys hug girls around the waist, and prefer to be hugged around the torso themselves.)

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A hug to say, "Goodbye." Once again this is assuming you are already dating. The night is winding down, you want to tell him you had a great time, and you'd love to do it again. A hug (maybe even a kiss) is a great way to do this. You just finished watching Win a Date with Tad Hamilton. The two of you walk toward the door, and start saying your goodbyes. Look at him like you want something. Don't let him just say goodbye and leave! If he doesn't get the hint you want a hug, get closer to him. Put your hand on his hips. If he still doesn't get the hint, pull him closer to you, and wrap your arms around him.

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A hug to say, "I love you." So you are half way through the date and you want to say, "I love you and I want you," but actually saying that would probably ruin your relationship. Once again the hug can save you. Snuggling is another great way of saying that, but that's another article.) This will probably occur during a date. Standing up or sitting down-- it doesn't matter. Look him deep in the eyes, place your hands on or around his hips and pull him closer. You can also pull him closer by grabbing (not a forceful grab) a small part of his shirt (near his stomach) and pull him that way. Get that boy nice and close to you, and wait. Don't rush in. Let the anticipation build. Slowly reach around his waist and start to hug him. Squeeze him, but don't break him. Stay in this position, don't try and get away, that ruins the mood. You don't need to speak, because you are talking by just being there. Stay there for a while, keep squeezing him. To make this an even better hug look at some of the tips, you can do those when you have him like this.

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A hug to say, "You are mine." Guys love it when a girl hugs them from behind. The back hug or bear hug is the ultimate way to completely sweep a guy off his feet. The method is to slowly insert your hands under his underarms and tightly clasp his shoulders from behind whilst digging your face into his back and clinging on to him firmly. Rest assured, the guy would be completely bowled over by you and is already considering marrying you.

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