culled from:beautyandtips.com
1. Nagging
Top of many men’s list
of definite dislikes about girls’ behavior is nagging. ‘Take out the
trash, clean up the mess, and fix that shelf!’ Give the guy a break!
He’ll get around to it, he’s got it all under control. It’s not the jobs
he hates, it’s being told about them every five minutes or so that
makes him mad.
2. The silent treatment
Tell your man when
you’re mad at him; don’t just go quiet in him. The silent treatment
really bugs men, because they usually can’t work out what they have done
wrong. It will only make matters worse, because it will probably take a
while for him to even notice that you are upset, and that will make you
even angrier at him.
3. Talking too much
It’s actually a fact
that usually women talk more than men. A man gets his message across in a
few, succinct, 8,000 words a day, while a woman will reach an average
of over 15,000 words a day! Men prefer to act than to talk about it, so
it’s no wonder men can’t fathom the need for so many words.
4. Women who try to change their men
This normally revolves
around girls who take up the pet project of attempting to domesticate
their man. They try to smarten him up, keep him at home more and make
him into a ‘better man’. Don’t try and make your man something that he
is not. It won’t work and it will make him unhappy.
5. Jealousy
A guy likes to know that
you care, but he hates it when you get jealous over nothing. Being
overly jealous can kill a relationship, so give your guy some credit; he
is perfectly capable of talking to another girl, without wanting to
jump into bed with her.
6. Saying I’m fine, when you’re not
This is a close cousin
of the silent treatment, when you say that you’re fine, but with such
venom, it stings! Talking is the only way to resolve disputes, so get it
out in the open and talk!
7. Ignoring warning lights in the car
Men are more
mechanically minded than girls, we all know that, but that really is no
excuse for ignoring the red lights on the dashboard of your car. Whether
it’s the oil running out, fuel running low, or worse, those little
lights are all there for a reason and a man just simply can’t understand
why you don’t take any notice of them.
8. Which one do you prefer?
If you do eventually get
your man to agree to come shopping with you, don’t ask for his opinion
on anything because that will really make him squirm. He knows he can’t
win and you are quite likely to ask him which one he likes, the red
dress or the blue, and then you will go and buy the black one.
9. Gossiping
While girls might find
the latest news on who is or is not sleeping with whom, guys don’t find
this kind of gossip even remotely interesting. They just don’t care one
bit for gossiping and are amazed that you would want to.
10. Using expression of tenderness as a weapon
When a girl deprives her
man of tenderness, as a punishment, then that is sure to drive him
insane. It’s the one thing they have no response to. But, be careful how
you use this weapon because, if you overuse it, you may regret doing
so.
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