culled from:self-improvement-mentor.com
1. Focus On The Most Important Things First
If you are like most people out there, there are many areas and things
in life that you would want to improve on. Most of us are always having
these grand plans to do so many things, to achieve so much and to become
so much more than what we currently are.
So perhaps unsurprisingly, one mistake that many people end up making is trying to bite off more than they can chew.
Being too ambitious and putting in too much stuff into a personal
development plan may end up having detrimental affects and possibly
discourage a person. This is an area where one should find proper
balance. You wouldn't want to put too much in, yet at the same time, the
ultimate objective or goal must be compelling enough or else you would
end up not being motivated by it at all.
Having ambitious and long term goals is not a problem, as long as you
don't end up doing too much at once. Work on it step by step.
Break it down into different milestones that will each add to the ultimate objective.
This way, you will be able to focus on one area to achieve / succeed
first and then move on to the next once that is done. This allows you to
stay on track, while not be too overwhelmed by the magnitude of the
task.
2. Take Advantage Of Your Strengths First Before Working On Your Weaknesses
It is a natural tendency for us to focus more on our weaknesses than our
strengths and talents. Now of course there's absolutely nothing wrong
with wanting to improve on your weaknesses. In fact, all of us should
strive to be the best that we can be.

However when too much focus is placed on trying to fix our flaws and
weaknesses, we often times end up disregarding and forgetting about our
strengths. By placing far too much emphasis on correcting our weaknesses
we fail to take advantage of our strengths.
Each of us is unique in our own ways, with our own natural strengths
and abilities. So it is a waste for us not to make good use of it.
The benefits that we get when we take advantage of our natural talents
and strengths far outweighs what we gain if we spend our efforts fixing
our weaknesses instead.
When drawing up a personal development plan, always focus on your
strengths first. Think about how you can further improve and make use of
your natural strengths and talents in your personal and professional
life.
3. Effective scheduling
The scheduling of your personal development plan is a very important
aspect. Set poor schedules and you'll end up either not sticking to it,
or just not being efficient making full use of it. When setting the
schedule for working on the improvement areas in your personal
development plan, there are two general tips ;
1. Set it earlier in the day

It is always a better idea to work on improving yourself earlier in the day.
This is the time that you are most fresh and receptive. In the morning you will feel energized from a good night's sleep, and you're not distracted by anything.
On the other hand, choosing to work on improving yourself or gaining
knowledge later in the day or at the end of the day isn't such a good
idea. Why is this so? By the end of the day we are usually tired from
the day's activities and happenings.
In addition to that, our mood may have been affected by the things that
happened earlier in the day. We are more prone to distractions or
emotional instability, and this greatly affects our ability to focus on
the task at hand.
By scheduling in the morning, we do not have any of these problems. Even
if you have had a bad day the day before, whatever that has happened
the day before is left behind when we go to bed. So when we wake up we
are starting again refreshed and ready to do what we need to do.
2. Have a fixed time for working on it

A big part of our lifestyle is due to routine. What we do or do not do
isn't really solely due to our conscious choices, but rather a large
part of it is because it is what we are used to doing. In other words,
it has become a part of our daily routine.
When you have a
fixed routine of for example, when to exercise,
when to read up new knowledge, when to do meditation, when to practice
your skills etc, it is very likely that you will be consistent in doing
it. The chances of you sticking to the schedule with discipline and
consistency is very high.
Because you are already so used to doing it, there is actually a pattern.
A physical neural pattern in your brain which associates a certain time
of the day with a certain activity. So much so that you would naturally
find yourself being 'pulled' to do that. If you don't do it, you would
have a weird feeling and it wouldn't feel right. As if something's
amiss. This is what is called a success habit.
By having a fixed routine or fixed timing for working on improving yourself,
what you are ultimately doing is setting a habit for success.
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