10 costless things that’ll make her give you more love, more sex

culled from:pulse.ng

So you think she’s not giving you enough bedroom time

If yes, you’re not alone — many men are in your shoes, not getting enough sex and wishing they could just get a little more.

Well, before you start quarrelling or cheating on her, you should pause and ask: Why is she holding out and preventing you from visiting the honey pot as often as you want?

In many cases, it is not that the woman does not want sex.

It is simply a case of you not doing enough ‘good’ deeds to EARN more sex than you are presently getting from her.

Here are 10 simple, costless things you can do to EARN more naughty time:

1. Don’t chase ejaculation when you have sex. Most men are selfish in bed. They chase ejaculation and once they climax, it’s over. They forget that foreplay is very important for women because it takes more time for them to get to climax than the average man. Start every sex session with intense foreplay.
2. Show her you miss her. Women like to know that you love them and miss them. So make innocent, non-sexual contact, like kissing, cuddling, holding her hand while you walk. Greet with a real peck whenever you meet ... add a brief hug.
3. Say the magic words often. Even when you show you love a woman, she still wants to hear it. So say it often, via SMS, phone calls, greeting cards and FACE-to-FACE. She’ll see you care and reward you.
4. As much as you can avoid her turn offs. As a man, it is important that you identify your woman’s turn-off. When do you, avoid it like poison because she will starve you of love (and Sex) whenever you trigger it. Every wise man knows his woman’s no-go area and sidesteps it. Go there and be ostracised.
5. Don’t run away after sex. Many men are guilty of this offence. Once they ejaculate, they turn away and withdraw. They do not know that, in most cases, the woman is yet to be rewarded. If you want her to enjoy and look forward to sex with you, stay with her after you ejaculate. Draw her close, cuddle, kiss and even clean-up for her.  
6. Buy her random ‘token’ gifts. Even the most modest, thrifty, unmaterialistic woman likes to get love gifts. The money value does not matter as much as the gesture. Even a hair pin, earring, lingerie, or some other trifle, will matter. So buy those for her from time to time.
7. Play sex games and try new styles. Make sex interesting and she’ll love it. There are number of adult bedroom games you can try with her. Also be creative with your sex positions. Turn sex into a pleasurable classroom for her. She’ll be anticipating it.
8. Give her oral. You may not know it, but oral sex is one of the best ways to give your woman an orgasm. If you do it right, you’ll soon get her moaning and twisting while she experiences earth-shaking orgasms. If you do that, you’ll soon have her trapped, offering sex every day.
9. Let her opinion count in the bedroom. Please, don’t be a bedroom dictator to your woman. Don’t go about it like a commander and he orderly. Be nice, speak nice and always ask her what she wants to do or wants you to do to her. Involving her will make her feel the sex is participatory, not one sided as it usually is. Ask her and give it to her as she wants.
10. Appreciate her body. Make your woman feel comfortable being naked. When you compliment her body features, she’ll feel that you like the entire package, not just her vagina. So know her birthmarks, scars and touch them. Kiss her body at odd spots and make her feel loved.

Generally, getting more love and re sex from your woman is just a matter of showing her that, though you like to have sex with her, it’s not just about sex.

You must make her feel that sex is a give and take affair that both parties involved have an equal stake and reward.

Do that and you’ll be running away from all the loving …pretty soon.