6 easy ways to breakup with your boyfriend

culled from:pulse.ng

Valentine's Day 2015 has come and gone, and while some people had an amazing time, others had a terrible day.

Presently, some ladies are stuck in some really messed up relationships and they just don't know the best way to remove themselves from that kind of situation.

If that's your problem right now, let's help you get out that shitty relationship with these 6 easy for breaking up with your boyfriend:

1. Don't give fake excuses: You don't have to tell him to his face that he's weird or boring, smelly or what-not, but lying about your main reason for wanting to breakup is not a good idea. Howvever, if you want either one of you to maintain your dignity, tell him the truth. You don't have to be brutally honest, though. You can start with something like, "I just don't feel a connection with you."
2. Don't over react: If your reason for breaking up with him is beacuse you are angry over something he did or said, express yourself. But remember you're not a victim - you can come and go as you please, and you are. If you are angry, chances are you are mad at yourself for not seeing who this person was earlier, or for not trusting your own instincts. But make sure you're calm when you raise this issue with him, and not blow things out of proportion.
3. Don't use gadgets: If you must breakup with him, please be bold enough to say to him face-to-face and not through text messages or emails or even a phone call. That's absolutely cowardly and immature. No matter what your reasons are, you owe him an explanation and the best way to get it across is to tell him to his face. Make him understand that the relationship is over and you're sorry.
4. Don't let him be the last to know: Yes, it's fine if you feel the need to share your thoughts with a friend who might help you work up the courage to break up, but try to limit the yourself to how many people heard the test-run of your dumping speech. If not, someone might just blab and when he finds out from someone other than you, he'll feel more devastated and humiliated.
5. Don't be part of the drama: A guy with hurt feelings and wounded pride can become verbally abusive, so try to calm the situation with silence. Don't engage in a war of words with him, just listen, be quiet and don't respond. Also, make sure you don't fuel the fire by defending yourself, as this would only make matters worse. Let him get it all out, and then leave.
6. Don't linger too long: According to relationship expert, Stephany Alexander, 'keep it short and sweet'. No break up should last more than 30 minutes.  You don't need to give him every reason that you want to end the relationship – just name one or two main problems and be done with it. The faster you do it, the sooner you'll feel better.