5 Things that can destroy your home

culled from:pulse.ng

Marriage is sacred and should be protected by both parties. It is a bed of roses. To get the beautiful rose, you will have to put your hands through thorns on the stem. Your ability to meander through the thorny stems to get the beautiful rose is what will determine how far your marriage will go.

Here are the top 5 marriage killers.

Lack of trust: This creates a hedge in the wall of your marriage. Though trust is earned, you should always give your spouse the benefit of the doubt.

Lack of communication: Communication is a two way process. When you do not listen attentively to your spouse, you break that link. When communicating with your spouse, you must understand that any little body language can disrupt the process. You are required to hear each other out without interrupting or using abusive words.

Untidyness: if you do not take care of your personal hygiene, you will create a distance between you and your spouse. Personal hygiene is very vital to enjoying sex.

Lack of Good sex: Sex has been down-played in most marriages, as a result of ignorance. Even your holy book encourages couples to enjoy sex. You are meant to enjoy sex with your spouse-Good sex. Good sex is when both of you share your sexual preferences and expectation without being shy. You can try to reach a compromise. Good sex eases communication tension.

Money: Finances play a crucial role in every family. Couples have to plan and manage money together. Do not hide your income and expenditures from each other. Have a family savings account.