How to make your husband happy

culled from:http://pulse.ng

Studies have shown that a large percentage of married men who engage in extra marital affairs, are Unhappy in their marriage. Psychologists say the men also want attention, contrary to popular opinion that men are not emotionally dependent. You can make you man happy by practicing the following tips.

  1. Make sex a priority: Every man wants good sex. Your ability to manage the chores at home and still make out time to pleasure your husband, will earn his respect and admiration. Infact you can reward him with sex points if he helps with the chores. Try it.

2. Make your home a haven: You husband wants to come back to a peaceful home, and into your loving arms. How do you greet him when he comes back? Do you just greet passively or casually ask him how his day was? Greet him with excitement. Tell him how much you have missed him. Make him feel welcome in his home. The homeis where the husband should feel safest.

3. Meet your man’s needs: Listen to the needs of yoru husband. Men appreciate women who put them and their needs first. Do not complain. His need could be sex, food, time out. Try to compromise.

4. Tell him he is the head: When you choose to submit to your husband, you fuel his ego. When a man’s ego is fuelled he always wants to be around the person that boosts his ego and here what he or she has to say. This doesn’t mean you become a door mat. What it does mean is that your respect your husband’s decision.

5. Kiss him always: A healthy daily dose of passionate kissing will boost your marriage. Give out plenty of kisses, just like when you were dating.

6. Look Good always: Do not have a wifey mindset. Think like you used to when you were dating. Remember you always wanted to look good for him. You wanted to wow! Him. He wants to see a new you everyday.

7. Bring back date night: Someone once wisely said to me that date nights are less expensive than marriage counseling. When you have time to regularly connect with your spouse to be fun and romantic, you prevent the arctic chill from settling between you. Date nights give you something to look forward to. Make sure they don’t become family business meetings. Guard your date nights as pure recreation and pleasure.

8. Smile and speak kind words to him always.