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Executive Republic
by Bukky Sanni
culled from:http://pulse.ng
If for one reason or the other, your marriage crashes, it is definitely not the end of the world. While being a divorcee may not be the best position to find yourself, you need to know that you can still get a shot at love.
Divorce is no longer as shocking as it used to be back in the day, because unfortunately, marriages no longer last 'forever'.
If for one reason or the other, your marriage crashes, it is definitely not the end of the world.
While being a divorcee may not be the best position to find yourself, you need to know that you can still get a shot at love.
Below are nine ways to get back into the dating game according to Bold Sky:
- Keep moving: The most common problem that a divorcee faces while thinking of getting into a new life is the 'starting trouble'. If you doubt about finding true love after a divorce, know that you are the ruler of your life and move ahead with wise decisions.
- Be right on time: Finding true love after divorce should not be too late, not too fast. Being too fast will pull you into troubles again. If you are waiting thinking that you have to go long way to find the right time to start a new life, probably, it will never come.
- Be positive: Moving on thinking and expecting problems in the new relationship will never allow you to enjoy your life. It is important to think positive. Be confident in yourself and accept your new partner in the way how they are.
- Trust: It is important to check whether the person that you are considering is trust worthy. Honesty and trust play important roles in a married life, especially when it is after a divorce.
- Romance: Nothing will work out if you are with a person without the spark of romance. Finding true love after divorce will be easy if you both share romance.
- Communication: Communication has an important role in deciding the future and longevity of your relationship. Make sure that you both are transparent in your communication.
- Listen to them: Take some time to listen to them. Understand everything about them and check their expectations about a new life. This will give you a chance to decide whether this is the right person for you.
- Don't compare: It is natural that you will have a tendency to compare your new partner with the ex. But, this will only create more problems. Focus on the present.
- Be practical: Be ready to accept the realities of life as it is and take practical decisions. Living in a dream world, waiting for your Prince Charming will never help you in finding true love after divorce.
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