Monday, 2 March 2015



Why Guys Don't Ask You For A Second Date


culled from:yourtango.com

Here are 3 keys to a second date.
The first date went really well. You felt a connection. He said he wanted to see you again; sometime. You even kissed. The only questions you're asking yourself is what happened, how come he hasn't asked for a second date or what am I doing wrong?
One
 
He wanted you in the moment. Men often get caught up in the moment. Especially if it's late at night and they've been drinking. He wanted you then because you were in front of him. In the morning with sobriety he realizes he doesn't know you which brings us to the second point.
Two
You had a physical connection. If when you meet a guy the physical connection outranks everything else and you focus on building this physical aspect you will be left with a guy who in the morning remembers that the physical connection came easy but he didn't have to do anything to win you over. Read A Life Of Love.
Three
The conquest was too easy. Men and people don't value things that are to easy to get. If after the first date or meeting he leave assured that you want him because you laid out the red carpet to let him know. He will view you as not valuable because it was to easy or worse yet he will view you as his mother.
The second date comes when you require courtship. Read A Life Of Love. This happens energetically when a man senses your self love and realizes you are not going to be free. This means that you like him but not more than yourself. Keep this in mind, require a courtship and you will be having as many second dates as you want.

7 comments:

  1. TIJANI LATIFAT IBIDUNNI
    As a lady we should not allow guys to take us cheapyly. We should ensure that guys we date appreciate us.

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  2. You will be addressed according to your dressing and most of the time, appearance shows an amiable manner

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  3. DURODOLA TAIWO OLUBISI
    As a lady we need to realise that we ladies needs guys to appreciate us. Therefore we should ensure that guys do not take dus cheaply.

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  4. Basically,as a fact from the writer,it usually happen as a result of the way in which the girl present herself in the first time of proposition frm the boy.

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  5. if a girl is so cheap to the extent that she has no dignity, and her behavior also goes a long way in guys asking her for a second date.....

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  6. I don't think there is a need for a second date. If there is a second date, it can't be as nice and good as the first date.

    By: Lasisi Afeez. A

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